- What is FLR Coaching?
Female Led Relationship Coaching is an educational program for singles & couples who want to learn more about Honoring the Feminine in themselves & in their Love Life. Perhaps a better name for this is Honoring the Feminine. This program is tailored to each individual or couple for your precise needs & wants, when learning about what you envision for a fulfilling Love Life. Exploring your ecstatic potential is a pathway to Bliss! For many couples, this program has successfully rekindled the passion & excitement in their relationship. Miss T’s programs all have a 98% success rate, when you follow her guidelines. This is because she focuses on personal growth. To Enroll CLICK HERE!
2. Where does this program take place?
FLR Coaching is available by-phone or online, preferably Skype. In-person sessions depend on Miss T’s itinerary & current events. Coaching by phone is an exceptionally easy way to learn the FLR Protocols & how they can elevate your Love Life. Stay tuned for the upcoming eBooks, audio books, & online programs. Miss T also offers online workshops & webinars for singles & couples. CLICK HERE to indicate your preference & you will be added to the appropriate list(s) when they are available.
3. How long has Miss T been coaching people?
Since 1996, so that is about 25 years now. Again, her programs have a 98% success rate, which is why she’s been coaching people for so long.
4. Who are your clients?
Most of Miss T’s dating & relationship clients are or have been executives & other professionals who recognize the value of feminine wisdom and personal growth. Psychiatrists, CEOs, accountants, lawyers, hi-tech executives, social workers, real estate developers, and many, many other professionals from almost every industry.
5. How did FLR get started? What are the 5 Food Groups & why are they so important?
The origin of FLR is quite interesting. Legend has it that there were 6-12 couples who worked as corporate trainers. These folks socialized a lot together & eventually the conversations turned to relationship success. They ultimately set out to ascertain how to make a long-term commitment not only work functionally, but to everyone’s true happiness.
What they found was that women has lots of clarity on what they wanted & needed to be happy in their relationship or marriage. These women recognized that there are 5 key areas which must be negotiated to at least some degree for mature adults to be happily wed, thus the “5 Food Groups” were born.
Just like the 5 Love Languages, the 5 Food Groups oversee the logistics of domestic bliss: Life Direction, Finances, Domestic Chores, Leisure Time, and Physical Intimacy. When a couple agrees on these 5 key areas in their live, compatibility goes way up. You might call them, The 5 Steps to Domestic Bliss.
Additionally, these trainers recognized that there are 4 Levels to FLR. Level 1 is the lightest degree of female authority, where the man will ‘allow’ her some decision making. Remember, in traditional, patriarchal or ‘male-led’ relationships, men make most of the decisions, whether they realize it or not. In the 21stC, it’s high time we all become cognizant of our life choices.
For example, most serious illnesses are completely preventable, based on lifestyle choices. When a woman is designated as a decision maker for lifestyle choices, it’s still more often that women will choose a healthier lifestyle. Thus, it is also the case, when women can have a key role in deciding finances, given her security-oriented sensibilities, she will usually opt for sustainable choices.
In chores, men will find they have a happier home when women are content with how things are done. As for a couple’s Life Direction, if a woman is happy with the direction they work toward together, then the relationship is likely to last must longer. If you are not being loved the way you want to be loved, then you are not likely to effectively love your partner. And of course, this is no where more evident than in the bedroom.
6. Why do you do this? Isn’t it against the Bible?
Until very recently, women had been oppressed for millennia. In some countries, women are still severely oppressed, often violently. Domestic violence, human trafficking, and other oppressive acts still persist at epidemic proportions in societies across the globe.
Doctrines which ascribe the Divine to being only masculine is a limited conception of Infinite Intelligence & Wisdom, which is probably beyond gender. The Creator is beyond most people’s comprehension, and much of what has been taught as “truth” is merely a device of social control by power hungry leaders, both political, social, religious, and corporate.
The Divine Feminine has much wisdom to offer men & women. Women, children and men, everyone deserves to walk safely upon the Earth. Everyone deserves the pursuit of their own happiness. And happiness, as studies show, stems from life-long learning. Learning encompasses self-awareness & self-discovery, as well as self-mastery, interpersonal skills, and exploring one’s full potential.
A well-known author, David Deida, writes, (and I paraphrase): A man needs a woman who is more feminine than he is, and a woman needs a man who is more masculine than she is. In fact, the emotional depth of a relationship is determined by the man because a psychologically healthy woman will not open up the treasure of her heart to a man who does not know what to do with it.
So, let’s conclude that a woman’s sensitivity to integrity makes her conscience an asset to any community. A man’s ability to protect & provide makes him an asset to any family. In a marriage or family, both have gifts to share & make for a lasting & happy union.
FLR & THE BIBLE
As for the Bible: The Christian Bible, or any Bible, is debated even amongst its very devout theologians. Interpretation is everything. Most will agree that the Bible teaches husbands & wives to cherish & respect each other, to bring happiness & honor to each other & the family. This is how strong communities may grow.
For thousands of years, women have helped to civilize men. A woman’s refined sensibilities make her more attuned to the needs of children, most often. After all, women have 60% more nerve endings in their bodies, than men. You might ponder why the Creator not only gave humans ‘souls’ to navigate this life, but also why men & women differ as they do.
Men have special gifts to help women, and vice versa. Together, they can make a great team, when they consciously co-create. An Indian proverb says, “The highest calling of a man is to make it safe for women to walk upon the earth. And the highest calling of a woman is to bring a man into his heart & soul.”
FLR has varying degrees of feminine authority & each couple must decide what level of authority a woman or wife enjoys vs. in which areas is the man or husband’s authority beneficial for the relationship & the family.
SEX & THE BIBLE
Human sexuality is such a hot potato in most circles. Most consider it too taboo or embarrassing to discuss. The truth is humans are incredibly sexual. And the Creator made us this way. This in no way detracts from our innocence of birthright of bliss. But there is a good reason why it is said, only fools rush in. When we give our hearts & bodies to another, without a genuine love & respect, we can suffer for years afterward. I love the saying, only someone who loves your naked soul deserves your naked body.
Because of Creator’s design, women usually need more emotional nurturing & foreplay before they can enjoy their bodies. Men seem most often content for sex without love, though this may be in part due to society norms. My research revealed that women need orgasms more often than men for many reasons, which can be discussed in our coaching sessions. But generally speaking, this is because such a practice will likely keep men sexually virile and women pleasantly relaxed.
As Elise Sutton, a well-known FLR author, is quoted as saying, “In a proper marriage the woman disciplines a man in order to fulfill his desires and in order to train him for her service. Women are not better than men. I never say that women are better than men, or of more value. What I say is that women are superior (above men, of a stronger character, designed to lead men, equipped to train men, equipped to rule men). A woman trains a man to be a better person, a better husband, and a better father. She breaks the aggressive male and channels his strengths into service of the woman and to humanity as a whole. “
7. What is your religion?
I consider myself more spiritual than religious. All religions contain some wisdom. Making this world a better place is what motivates me. From studying world religions, I have found Christ consciousness the most instructive for character development in both men & women. But there is wisdom in every religion & holy book, and most every philosophy, because the Creator has made a truly diverse array in human endeavors.
8. How much do you charge?
Sessions vary, but are on a sliding scale between $75-195 per hour.
$150-195/hr for Couples Video Sessions
$150-175/hr for Couples Phone Sessions
$100-150/hr for Individual Phone Sessions
$75-100/hr for Seniors 65+, full-time students, rank & file military, & low income.
Apply now to enroll in one or more of our various relationship programs:
Loving the Feminine – Explore the many ways to honor the feminine, in yourself and in others.
FLR Relationship Coaching – Cultivate more Female Authority in your Life, learn the 5 Food Groups, and see how far you are willing to go.
Romantic Paradigms – Explore your flirting styles, fantasies & fetishes
Depending on your interest-level, you may want to submerge yourself in this training for a year or more.
Most FLR Experts recommend pursuing Female-Led Relationships in a Vanilla approach, until you have built up enough trust & respect to take your relationship to the next level of intimacy.
Miss T initially began Relationship Coaching for Vanilla lifestyles:
CoCreating for Couples – Learn to collaborate as a couple.
Dating Coach for Single Men – Alchemy of Attraction: How to Date Women.
Dating Your Wife – How to Please a Wife, Woman, Goddess.
Dating Coach for Women – Dating Him for Keeps, Dating for Marriage.
Ecstatic Lifestyles – Discover your ecstatic potential for a Joy-filled Life.
Evolving the Masculine – What men are recognizing about being a man.
Love in the 21stC – Network of Relationship Coaching programs.
Your Feminine Radiance – Coaching program for all women.
LOVE & SPIRITUALITY
…and for Spiritual Lovers
Ascension Pathways – Learn to meditate & balance your chakras.
FLR Tantra Coaching – Advanced Coaching for Domestic Bliss.
Feng Shui Your Home – Creating ambient vibes for bliss-filled loving.
Goddess Bliss Yoga – Advanced coaching program for men & women.
Goddess Handbook – The Emerging Goddess Journey (for Women)
GoddessRising – Empowering & honoring women in our world.
Tantra Yoga – Discover the yoga of Loving Relationships.
Path to the Beloved – Relationship as devotional practice.
Enroll in any of these programs for more a more fulfilling Love Life. Your professional coach has been helping singles & couples for almost 25 years.